Over the last year, I’ve become very disgruntled with the amount people using useless and/or unnecessary social networking sites on the web. In November, I deleted my Myspace page, and other than the ability to message 4,000 people all at once, I have not missed much of it. I still run the T.O.F.U. (myspace.com/tonsoffununiversity) profile there, which I am trying to keep very simple.
Instead of hoarding people and sites, we should be evolving with the web. For example, the first social profile I created was at Friendster. It sucked over time, so I moved to Myspace in 2003, and now I’m at Facebook, which has learned a lot from the “growing suckage” of it’s predecessors. These predecessors are now learning from the new kids on the internet block; keeping up with the trend of quality usefulness and user-friendliness. Smart, that is.
However, I feel that when one does add themselves to a new community, they should pick one or two and stick with it. Each online community is very much like a house or a city, very few people live in more than one. It doesn’t seem logical.
By this, I figure I will leave Facebook once a better, more efficient networking portal comes along. It may exist already, but I would probably have to utilize my web-addiction a lot more to find it and develop yet another group of people I will always hardly know personally.
A good friend of mine has accounts and profiles registered on dozens of various social networking websites. I also know that this friend is annoyed with the amount maintenance needed to keep them updated, and eventually forgets about them, only to re-register as a new user. With me trying to be creative and maintain my touring schedule, I was falling behind on my Facebook and Myspace maintenance, so one of them had to go and I went with the lesser of two suckas.
My LiveJournal account has much more value to me than my Myspace profile ever did, which is why I’m keeping it. But now that I’ve “WordPress-ed” my site toward blog-friendliness, I am now reconsidering how I will use my LJ blog. I have considered using it as a Neat Links page, or as my gig listings. Not sure what I will do with it just yet.
I dig the web big time, but I certainly see the lack of much actual art/action stemming from being a member of any website or social network. I think there are a handful of people who have made their careers through web affiliation or promotion on some of these, but it seems to be a small handful of barely-skilled entertainers, and I believe it is a fleeting fame they are falling into. Over time, it’s a very small percentage of the world that actually cares about people who are famous for being famous. Fame in art is nice, but not necessary or primary. Art in fame would be nice to see.
Looking at the nature of shitty things on the net versus actual shitty things in the world and can I see that the web is a moving, growing tabloid of low-quality public interest and a broken amplifier of what the world really is and could become. The truest aspects of what counts in life can a should be found offline, on one’s own, then maybe one can research it online.
The internet is amazing. I certainly get most of my information from it, and have made more of a career through it, but I also tour a lot and perform many, many times a year in front of hundreds of thousands of people. That helps too. No matter how many people know you on the internet, one can never truly understand their own impact until they personally meet and greet the people they have or are impacting.
I feel like there needs to be better contact and context from artists online. If you have a growing fan base, stay in touch with them. Take the time to reach out and know your audience. I can learn from this philosophy too. I have really slipped in the last year with regard to keeping in touch with friends, fans and users. I am going to make a difference this year.
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I totally agree Mike! I don’t need multiple social networks to belong to. There are only a few I call home, Facebook and Twitter. That’s pretty much about it. But agree in that if you are in so many different places on the web then it doesn’t work because none of them feel like home.
I feel like a nomad on Ted Steven’s Tubes. I flow my own way damnit! LOL
Great post, Great site, Great Poetry. Hope to meet you some day.
You definitely inspire me to do creative things, and that makes you cool in my book! And it’s a very small book.
Steve “Snowball” Saylor
http://stevesaylor.net
Thanks, Steve! I dig your site a bunch. Very clean and useful!
I guess we’re in a surge of mass networking sites right now. Eventually, I think, they will subside and users will begin deleting their accounts on the sites that just don’t work for them. In this, we should be seeing the fall of several, if not dozens of popular sites over the next couple of years.
Damn you, Friendster, see what you started!
Thanks for joining up, Steve. And thanks a bunch for the lovely compliments. Let’s start a revolution.
No thank you sir. (I like this, seeing how far we can go without saying You’re Welcome to each other, but wait I already said it. Damnit!) LOL
Speaking of deleting accounts, I did the first thing risky that I have ever done in regards to social networks. On Jan 30th, I deleted my myspace account just because I wasn’t using it, and all I got was males pretending to be female spammers.
That being said, having a social network definitely helps to a certain degree in marketing yourself or the brand of yourself. As an example, I found you through a friend of mine who saw you in Toronto when you were there the first time, and she posted a youtube video of you performing Soul Food (which I found hilarious BTW). Then that led me to your myspace account which had some of your other work on there when you had “Like” and “Puddin’” on the myspace player. That made me want to find more about you, and then more about Slam Poetry. And now, whenever I can I have shown your work to my friends who are now loving your stuff. So social networks does have it’s advantages, and what I just said was proof of that. However, there is that balance of negative things about it. The question is whether the user is willing to balance those and make the informed decision, or go there because their friends are there.
Either way, long comment short. That’s what I think.
Hope to see you in Toronto some time soon. (I know you were just there, but heres hoping you’re there more often)
Steve “Snowball” Saylor
http://stevesaylor.net
P.S. Just wanted to let you know, I have made the decision this week to write performance poetry, that I hope to perform at a slam some day. See Social Networking lives again!! LOL